The Search Is Over - Survivor (My Wedding Song!)

How can I convince you
what you see is real
Who am I to blame you
for doubting what you feel
I was always reachin',
you were just a girl I knew
I took for granted the friend I have in you

I was living for a dream,
loving for a moment
Taking on the world,
that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes,
I can see forever
The search is over,
you were with me all the while

Can we last forever,
will we fall apart
At times it's so confusing,
the questions of the heart
You followed me through changes,
and patiently you'd wait
Till I came to my senses,
through some miracle of fate

I was living for a dream,
loving for a moment
Taking on the world,
that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes,
I can see forever
The search is over,
you were with me all the while

Now the miles stretch out behind me,
loves that I have lost
Broken hearts lie victims of the game
Then good luck,
it finally stuck like lightning from the blue
Every highway's leading me back to you
Now at last I hold you,
now all is said and done
The search has come full circle,
our destinies are one
So if you ever loved me,
show me that you give a damn
You'll know for certain the man I really am

I was living for a dream,
loving for a moment
Taking on the world,
that was just my style
When I touched your hand,
I could hear you whisper
The search is over,
love was right before my eyes

This time i agree... Family. Love and family...

Yup! It's about fate! Infatuation is a start (if there is, sometimes, it's not necessary). Love follows, then by relationship. I would say marriage is a challenge by a relationship. It's about a couple who decides to take the challenge - living together for their life - for their relationship. One of my married colleague told me, a trues challenge starts from the marriage. The marriage can last is because of the two 'decided' or 'committed' to take the challenge. What holds them? The answer is 'family'. They love their 'family' therefore they want to protect their 'family' even they had fight, they had different opinion, etc on a little things in life, but they oversome these 'together'. It's just because their 'love' is not for only each 'individual', but the 'family'.

Love someone or to be loved is the beginning of the beginning! We need vision to last the love forever. The vision is the family.